PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT TIPS FOR AN INCREDIBLE PERSONALITY

 

What is Personality?

Personality is a characteristic way of thinking, feeling, and behaving. A research study by psychologists at the University of Illinois suggests that we can change our personality traits provided we want to change them. 

You can become the best version of yourself if you want to. A version that reverberates confidence, enthusiasm, and serenity. The kind that makes you stand out and help you get what you want in life.

10 Personality development tips:

# Remember you’re a proton.

# Know you are incomparable.

# The qualities you want are in seed

   form.

# Be kind to yourself

# Think like a leader

# Be light in mind and heart

# Stay enthusiastic 

# Be a better communicator

# Learn to let go

# Save your mind from negativity

1.REMEMBER YOU’RE A PROTON:

A proton can never lose its positivity. Nor can you. Stress may affect us on the outside. However, your inner core continues to radiate positivity like a proton. It stays unaffected, happy and peaceful. Tune into this part of yourself again and again with the help of meditation. The process energizes and brings out positive traits like enthusiasm.

2.KNOW YOU ARE INCOMPARABLE:

You can control one life—yours. But when we constantly compare ourselves to others, we waste precious energy focusing on other peoples' lives rather than our own. Comparisons often result in resentment. Resentment towards others and towards ourselves. Comparisons deprive us of joy.

3.THE QUALITIES YOU WANT ARE IN SEED FORM:

We don’t really get the qualities we like in our peers with the feelings of jealousy or insecurity. That only makes us mentally weak. A healthier attitude is to applaud the qualities you like in your peers and recognize that these qualities are within you too, albeit in a seed form. With attention and practice, you can cultivate the same qualities and abilities in you. That is a growth mindset, the kind designed for success.

4.BE KIND TO YOURSELF:

Self-compassion is inextricably linked with the concept of cultivating a growth mindset. If you can treat yourself with kindness and understanding, you're more likely to forgive yourself as part of learning and evolving to become your best self. With forgiveness comes motivation to avoid replicating prior mistakes.

5.THINK LIKE A LEADER:

A leader is not just someone by position. They are people who take responsibilities without waiting for someone else to give to them. Just thinking like one nurtures leadership traits in you. It can help you bring change and influence others.

6.BE LIGHT IN MIND AND HEART:

When you are light in the mind and heart, it reflects in your behavior with others. People also feel light in your company. One of the ways to be able to feel that way is to not overthink and overanalyze. Don’t let any negativity like shame, anger, jealousy or greed stay in you for too long. Learn to take it easy, forgive easily and drop grudges against people as soon as they pop up. You also feel happy from within, and who does not like happy people

7.STAY ENTHUSIASTIC:

There are two ways by which enthusiasm helps you: it makes your everyday tasks more joyful, and it pulls people towards you. And everyone likes enthusiasm. Meditation helps one feel enthusiastic, calm and composed at the same time.

8.BE A BETTER COMMUNICATOR:

*Identify Your Objectives. What do you hope to accomplish, either immediately or long term? ... 

*Listen Actively. Communication isn't just about what you say. ... 

*Note Your Body Language. ... 

*Know Your Audience. ... 

*Pace Yourself. ... 

*Choose the Right Time. ... 

*Be Clear.

9.LEARN TO LET GO:

*Create a positive mantra to counter the painful thoughts. ... 

*Create physical distance. ... 

*Do your own work. ... 

*Practice mindfulness. ... 

*Be gentle with yourself. ... 

*Allow the negative emotions to flow. ... 

*Accept that the other person may not     apologize. ... 

*Engage in self-care.

10.SAVE YOUR MIND FROM NEGATIVITY:

*Learn To Control Your Emotions. We definitely don't mean that you become jaded and don't acknowledge your emotions at all. ...

*Believe In Yourself. ...

*Meditate Or Practice Silence. ...

*Stop Jumping To Conclusions. ...

*Smile, Even If You Don't Feel Like It.

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